The Male "G-Spot"

Dear Miss Lu,

I've heard guys have a G-spot. Is that true? Where is and what should I to with it?

Lost in LA

Hi Lost,

When people talk about the "male G-spot" they are referring to the prostate. The prostate is a walnut-shaped gland about three inches up the front wall of the anal canal. When men are aroused, the prostate swells and secretes part of the fluid that makes up semen. This little gland can provide intense pleasure when stimulated during sex.

There are a few ways to incorporate the prostate into your games.

Beginners: Perineum Massage
The perineum or taint is the nerve-centric space between a man's testicles and anus. The prostate gland lies underneath the perineum, so pressing externally on this stretch of skin can arouse his G-spot. Use your thumb or knuckle to gently knead the area, especially while performing oral sex. As your guy starts to orgasm, press a little bit harder to really send him into orbit. It is often helpful to lubricate your fingers before stroking the perineum. If the stimulation remains outside the body, any type of lubricant (petroleum-base or water-base) will do.

Intermediate: Fingering the Prostate
For this one, you definitely need to talk with your guy first. There is still a huge stigma around anal penetration, especially for guys. Place your lover on his back with his knees bent and his feet flat on the bed. While stroking his penis, message the anus with a well-lubricated pinky (down the road you can use your index or middle finger). Use a water-base lubricant and keep your eyes on what you are doing. When he seems ready, slowly slid your pinky into him, up to the first knuckle. Now that your finger is inside of him, you can take your eyes off the action. Next, go to town on his cock. With your finger exploring his neither-regions, the feeling of you mouth on his penis with send him through the roof. Slip your finger further inside his anus, to the second knuckle, and press the fingertip into the front wall of his anal canal. You can also use a condom during this process. Anal penetration does carry its fair share of risk of infection. A condom can help reduce internal abrasions and help limit exposure to infection.

Advanced: Figging
This technique is NOT for the faint of heart. This should only be use on guys (and gals) with extensive anal experience and high pain tolerance. Straight from my BDSM vaults I bring you ginger figging. The idea is to take a finger of well-peeled gingerroot (the length and width depends on personal taste) and insert it anally. At first the ginger is cold but after a minute the entire anal region is set aflame. The intense heat lasts about 20 minutes. After that, the sensation dulls to a bearable burning. If your first thought is "Oh dear, why?" then DO NOT try this technique. Figging can, for a very small percentage of the population, create and amazing experience. For everyone else it is just painful.
Disclaimer: There are no studies that I am aware of that cover the dangers or benefits of ginger suppositories. However, severely irritating the anal canal (which is already highly susceptible to infection) just doesn’t seem like a good idea. If you do explore figging, proceed at your own risk!

Love Always,

Miss Lu the Slutty Jew